2009-11-03(Tue)
Dear Ah Yi...This is some psychology study case for you.
Anyway, anyone can give some advices as well, not necessary my dear friend Ah Yi.
So this is the situation.
X has an introvert personality and a negative thinking. These are the main reasons that lead X socially incapable. X finds that it is hard for everyone in her surrounding to get along with X. X always thinks that X conversation topics are not of the interest of X friends so X never try to approach friends with any of X's topic. X also do not like to participate in other people conversation as X always think that people shunned X. This make X thinks negatively on people around her. X likes to take small matter seriously. For example, when other people join X's best friend, Y, for a conversation, X will thinks that Y is ignoring her and that the people who joined Y are stealing Y away from X. Y realized this behavior of X hence, Y decided to give an advice to X. However, X refused to accept the advice and things turns out to be worst. Y and the people surrounding her are getting hard to communicate and deal with X as X is situation is getting worst day by day.
X has a family background that in my opinion might have some influence on her behavior. X's dad trusts his friends too much that he is cheated uncountable times. Everytime X's dad lent his money to his friends, X's mom will break down into tears for X's dad never learn his lesson. As a child, X is heart break. To add the matter worst, when X told X's dad that X wanted to study abroad, X's dad does not allow and the reason that X's dad gave was that he does not has the money. X disappointed with X's dad and started to harbor hate feeling towards X's dad.
So the question here is;
What is the best approach(s)/Solution(s) to make X realizes X problems and change X behavior?
So this is the situation.
X has an introvert personality and a negative thinking. These are the main reasons that lead X socially incapable. X finds that it is hard for everyone in her surrounding to get along with X. X always thinks that X conversation topics are not of the interest of X friends so X never try to approach friends with any of X's topic. X also do not like to participate in other people conversation as X always think that people shunned X. This make X thinks negatively on people around her. X likes to take small matter seriously. For example, when other people join X's best friend, Y, for a conversation, X will thinks that Y is ignoring her and that the people who joined Y are stealing Y away from X. Y realized this behavior of X hence, Y decided to give an advice to X. However, X refused to accept the advice and things turns out to be worst. Y and the people surrounding her are getting hard to communicate and deal with X as X is situation is getting worst day by day.
X has a family background that in my opinion might have some influence on her behavior. X's dad trusts his friends too much that he is cheated uncountable times. Everytime X's dad lent his money to his friends, X's mom will break down into tears for X's dad never learn his lesson. As a child, X is heart break. To add the matter worst, when X told X's dad that X wanted to study abroad, X's dad does not allow and the reason that X's dad gave was that he does not has the money. X disappointed with X's dad and started to harbor hate feeling towards X's dad.
So the question here is;
What is the best approach(s)/Solution(s) to make X realizes X problems and change X behavior?
